November 2011

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Last night dinner

November 29, 2011

Son Tom came for the week of Thanksgiving and I have to say this was one happy Mom. The weather was great, took walks, did the coffee shop and rec center, and just caught up in general. And I made some of the old favorites…chicken divan, Shepard’s Pie…these go back to childhood. We’ll miss him and so will Jesse, our pup.

I can’t believe it’s been almost seven weeks since the spine surgery. It has gone fast with hindsight. And I’ve felt so much better. The sciatica is gone and I can smile again. Next doctor appt. is on December 6 and maybe I’ll be able to take off this damn brace. I’m thinking positive. Then physical therapy will start the 7th, three times a week for six weeks as the weather allows. I can’t regain the three inch height loss (genetics) but sure hope to tune up the rest of the body!

Another gorgeous day here in paradise…cold during the night, up in the 50s in the sun during the day. The swan family of three fly around every morning, probably trying to warm up. And the eagle sits patiently on the dead tree watching the lake for his next meal. My Jim is home and that makes every day perfect. The golf course even opened again for a few days and he’s now in 7th heaven and on the 16th green. If he’s not doing that, I always know right where he is…in front of golf on the TV, keeping the channel changer as his personal possession. But when the Nebraska game is on…or the Broncos, then we go back and forth or have them both up at the same time. I really enjoy both but I think I need to start writing again or find another good book to read!!

We have so much to be grateful for this year as we do every year. Christmas is right around the corner and Ron and his three kids (12, 14 and 16) are coming on the 26th. I see snow- boarding in their future and some good times down at the hot springs. And probably some more of those childhood dinners. I’m hoping the weather behaves for their flights…it’s not an easy trip (or cheap) getting here!

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Last night dinner

PATIENCE

PATIENCE ? Recovery from back surgery
No matter how for-warned you are, it can still be challenging to be patient, to watch the hours, days or weeks go by at a snail’s pace. To be honest, I sometimes talk to myself, reprimand myself, whine more than I should…and the fact is, it’s going to take time and lots of it to heal. My energy level has dropped considerably, and I’m physically unable to do so many things, just simple every day things like picking something up off the floor. The long handled grabber helps and Jim’s more than willing to wait on me hand and foot, no pun intended. That’s NOT what I want a husband for! {grin}                                                 

                 It’s been three and a half weeks since they slit my lumbar region and used all kinds of hardware to stabilize the spine and make the pain go away. I just got photos of the amazing job the surgeon did but still have a hard time accepting that I’m a walking titanium arsenal. All that stuff should, I hope, hold together, grow new bone, and make me a new person…or at least someone that doesn’t moan and groan all the time. Maybe I should rephrase that. Moan and groan in pain all the time. {smile}
I’m walking every day as I should and usually it adds up to two miles. I have a great pedometer to keep me honest, and Jesse thinks it’s all good. The weather is iffy now so I wait untilit’s warmer and ice has melted. The doctor kindly commented that although the brace is big and really uncomfortable, it’s basically Velcro and stretchy strings and if I fall, it probably won’t hold me together. Now there’s an image I can do without!
So instead, I have photos of the incredible beauty that surrounds us as the seasons change in Colorado. The lake, snow, swans and ducks make for good pictures, and now that the eagles have returned, I’ll have things to watch all winter. I’ve posted a bunch on Facebook and will add a couple in this blog. They’re much nicer than the one of my screwed up back. And now I know where that saying…screwed up…came from! Patience and gratitude are my goals along with healing. I have much to be thankful for and will talk about that another day.